I have gained my sexuality back from after two children. Finally I desire and feel sexual once again
Kate thought her sexuality had disappeared. Two children had left her feeling like her body wasn’t hers. Years of breastfeeding and children...
How to experience a different quality of pleasure in your sexual life
To change how you experience, pleasure, sex and intimacy takes practice, practice practice. When you approach sex with a goal in mind,...
Your sexual energy is for you
This is a revelation for many people that I work with. The women I work with often grow up to believe that their sexual energy is for other people...
The power of gentle sex
Learning about sex in the hotch pot way that I did, I thought that I was meant to look sexy, act sexy, and that sex had to get faster faster and...
How I learnt to ask for what I want
I was raised to be the typical good girl, not just with my parents but with school, family and any ‘authority’. I heard familiar phrases like...
A transformation journey of one of my clients
Marion, 42, had been single for a while. She had a number of relationships when she was younger and couldn’t figure out why they didn’t work....
There is nothing ‘wrong’ with you – it’s the type of sex you’re having!
My clients think that they are the problem, that there is something ‘wrong’ with them. They think they are somehow ‘broken’ or they are a...
The pleasure journey of one of my clients
Anthi, in her mid-40s, reached out to me as intimacy with her long term partner had pretty much stopped. She found sex ‘scary and disgusting’. She...
Getting to know your erotic landscape
“The women who shared stories of loving sex or of having profound sexual experiences reminded me at times of careful cartographers. They were not...
