How to deepen your love making

A day retreat for couples

With Sarah Rose Bright & Graeme Waterfield

NW London, Saturday 1st June 2024, 10 – 6pm

Love Making for Couples is a day to devote quality time for connection and exploration with your partner, away from the distractions and busyness of life.

This is a day to explore moving beyond the ‘goal-based sex’ that most people learn, to find a deeper way to experience love making – what we call relaxed love making. Like fine wine, and with practice, it gets better and better over time.

Changing how you experience love making can bring more aliveness, passion, intimacy and love into your relationship, transforming your whole approach to sex. It can smooth out the places where you may feel stuck so that you can feel more ease and connection with each other.

We’ve loved it and highly recommend to anyone committed to their relationship.” Katey

In Love Making for Couples, we’re going to guide you through a series of teachings and practices so that you can learn how to deepen the love making you share together. These are practices to help you prepare for love making and also to deepen the intimacy and pleasure you experience together.

We will share:

  • The difference between conventional love making/goal-based sex and relaxed love making (aka slow sex or tantric love making)
  • How to explore deeper realms of love making
  • Why presence and relaxation are the portals to great pleasure
  • Why it is important to prepare yourself for love making and how to do that together
  • Simple yet powerful practices to down regulate your nervous system and come together in presence and deep connection
  • How to touch with intention
  • Chi Gung for couples

** You will only work with your partner and all the practices are done clothed. We create a space which is gentle, safe and honouring of each couple. **

This is a day to devote to each other – to see and be seen, to listen and be heard, to give and receive. You will end the day feeling deeply relaxed and connected to each other with profound practices that you will be inspired to continue to explore together.

After the event we will send you a copy of these as they are practices that you can explore for life!

Being non-goal-oriented is my biggest take-away and an opening to a whole new world…Sarah and Graeme, you are the kindest and most sensitive guides we could have imagined.”  Penny

There is something very special about being part of a group of couples who have committed to exploration, growth and love. Whether you have been in relationship for decades, you’re just starting out together or you are lovers, whether you have gone to couples workshops before or this is totally new to you, you are welcome to join us.  

Same sex and non binary partnerships are very welcome.

It’s a revelation. Redefining what sex is has taken a huge weight off my shoulders. I don’t feel the pressure I felt in hot sex and my performance anxiety has gone.” Georgio



There is space for only 5 couples for this retreat. 

£395 per couple

Payment options :

1 x payment of £395    

BOOKING CONFIRMATION EMAIL:  When you book, you will receive an email with all the information you need. If you don’t receive the email, please check your spam/junk folder before contacting us. If you have any questions, please check the email before contacting us as it may well answer your question.

A NOTE ON REFUNDS: There are no refunds. If you cannot make the retreat and the event is full, we will endeavour to re-sell your place and if successful, you will be given a refund less £50 to cover administration costs. Alternatively, you can give/sell your ticket to another couple and introduce them to us via email so we can connect with them prior to the event.

HAVE YOU ANY QUESTIONS? Contact [email protected]


About Us

Hi! We’re Graeme and Sarah and we have been in a committed relationship for over 5 years.

Before we met, we spent decades on our own paths, healing and growing and learning about relationships, sometimes painfully. For both of us, we are in the relationship we dreamed of, and knew in the depths of our heart that was possible.

It hasn’t always been easy and as we have navigated through the highs and the lows of being together, we have seen firsthand the tools and the ways of being which help us to  come back to our own hearts and to create a partnership of respect, radical honesty, playfulness and ever deepening love and pleasure. And yes, sex gets better and better!

We weave together decades of study and teaching to inspire couples to deepen their intimacy, love and pleasure through conscious relating, energetic practices, Chi Gung and meditation, Taoism and Tantra and modern sexology. Teaching together, we are known for being grounded, inspirational and playful.

Sarah Rose Bright is a Love, Sex and Intimacy Coach, host of the Love, Sex and Intimacy Podcast and Gene Keys Guide who helps women and couples to reset their sex and intimate lives away from goal-based sex and to discover deep intimacy and expansive pleasure so that they feel relaxed in who they are and have relationships that are happy, loving, passionate and sustainable.

Graeme Waterfield is a teacher of Tai Chi, Qi Gung & Meditation. He coaches men individually and in groups in sexual energy mastery, and supports humans in connecting to the wisdom of their soul.

Together, Sarah and Graeme offers retreats, sessions and courses online and worldwide.

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