How to make love
Why make love? In today’s culture, we’re mostly shown just one kind of sex: hot, intense, and fast. It’s the kind we see in movies or porn — where...
Why sex toys and new positions are not the answer (unless of course you are Prince!)
If you were an alien who wanted advice about sex, and you looked at the sex sections on the websites of mainstream magazines you might believe the...
Why sex isn’t working for most people, by Graeme Waterfield
Myself and my partner Sarah, endeavour to put half a day aside for sexual intimacy regularly. This is amazing because I look back into my...
It’s not sex you’re craving – it’s intimacy
There are so many couples I have worked with who share with me that they thought they wanted more sex and they realised that what was really...
Slow sex and menopause
My body is changing. Over a year ago, I started experiencing pain during love making which I’d never experienced pain before. It wasn’t...
Myths & misunderstandings about sexual intimacy
Whenever I hear client stories, whether my private couples, or the ones in our INTIMACY course, I see how so many of the challenges they are...
A new conversation about sex – from hot sex to relaxed sex
I am noticing the emergence of a new conversation about sex and one that I really welcome. One of the things I love about it is that it’s not...
Getting to know what you really want
I love working with couples. In a recent session with one of my couples clients, we started exploring what it is that they really want. The woman...
Why it’s important to prioritise your relationship
One of the biggest and most damaging myths about relationships is that they should happen naturally and effortlessly, and if they don’t, then...
