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The Temperatures of Pleasure

The Temperatures of Pleasure

The Temperatures of Pleasure  When it comes to pleasure people often want it hot, hot, hot. And yes hot can be great, right? Though this is often coupled with a belief that hotter temperatures of pleasure are somehow better than the cooler end of the spectrum. They...

Viva La Soft Cock Revolution!

Viva La Soft Cock Revolution!

Viva La Soft Cock Revolution! One of my favourite sex educators and revolutionaries Annie Sprinkle calls for a ‘soft cock revolution’. There is so much wisdom in that statement and here is why. It’s fascinating to reflect on the use of the word ‘hard’ in our culture -...

Ten Myths About Sexual Pleasure

Ten Myths About Sexual Pleasure

Ten Myths About Sexual Pleasure Most of us don’t learn about sex and pleasure in any meaningful way.  What we learn from our culture especially from pornography, the movies and magazines is limited, unrealistic and fundamentally flawed.  Yet many believe this is how...