female orgasm

The curse of the multi orgasmic goddess

The curse of the multi orgasmic goddess

  There has been a huge growth especially in the last 5 years of sexuality teachers, coaches, courses and workshops etc which is of course wonderful.  When I started exploring this work nearly twenty years ago there was very little available and you really had to...

This is for me

This is for me

  “This is for me” is a phrase I learnt from Betty Martin’s wonderful work the wheel of consent and it’s a powerhouse of a phrase. Many of the women that I work with are so used to intimate pleasure being all about the other person. This is also true of some of...

#nomoreshitsex

#nomoreshitsex

Over the last 20 years I have listened to many many people talk about their sex lives. It’s an honour and a privilege every single time as people share with me things they have often never talked about before and over the years I’ve heard people talk a lot about how...

Meet Susan & Jen

Meet Susan & Jen

  Susan came to the course feeling shut off from her sexual energy, and as she described ‘hopeless’ about her future. This course was her final attempt to see if change was possible and as she shared, her life has completely changed, more than she ever thought...

The Myth of Telepathic Sex

The Myth of Telepathic Sex

The Myth of Telepathic Sex: If you believe sex ‘should’ be telepathic, that you ‘should’ just know what your partner likes and they ‘should’ just know what you like without any communication, watch this video to find out the problems this myth causes and why amazing...

Is My Vulva Ugly?

Is My Vulva Ugly?

(Estimated reading time 8 minutes) Women often share with me that they think their vagina is ugly, and when they say vagina, they really mean their vulva - the external area of the female genitals, vagina being the inside area. Watch the video below or read the...