Month: August 2017

The Power of Pleasure

The Power of Pleasure

The Power of Pleasure As sun and water feed the plants so they grow, so is pleasure a source of energy for us human beings. It is food for the soul.  Without it, as the plants without sun and water, our soul will shrivel up and on some level die. Pleasure feeds us on...

What’s Your Pleasure?

What’s Your Pleasure?

What’s Your Pleasure?  Pleasure connects us to ourselves. To choose pleasure, we have to ask what we really need, want and desire. This is what truly gives us pleasure, not what we think ‘should’ give us pleasure, or what we do out of habit, loyalty and many more...

From Performance to Pleasure

From Performance to Pleasure

From Performance to Pleasure The sexuality most of us learn is based on performance and goals. The goal of having an erection, keeping an erection, not coming to soon, building the arousal, having an orgasm, not having an orgasm, giving your partner an orgasm and so...

The Challenges & Gifts of Sexual Pleasure

The Challenges & Gifts of Sexual Pleasure

The Challenges & Gifts of Sexual Pleasure Sexual pleasure which can be the most challenging and controversial of all pleasures. We’re going to begin with reflecting on the social and cultural influences on our sexuality and sex lives and how these affect us. Then...

How your genitals are unique and perfect as they are

How your genitals are unique and perfect as they are

(Estimated Reading Time is 5 minutes) The genitals we see in pornography are usually one type with females with small, neat, symmetrical shaven vulvas and males with long, large and continually hard cocks!  Just like the highly unrealistic images we see of how bodies...

Ten Tips to Enhance Your Self Pleasure

Ten Tips to Enhance Your Self Pleasure

Ten Tips to Enhance Your Self Pleasure Research shows people who ‘masturbate’ or ‘self pleasure’, are more likely to have fulfilling sex lives, better health, happier relationships and an overall increase in self-confidence.  You become the expert of your own body and...

Ten Myths About Sexual Pleasure

Ten Myths About Sexual Pleasure

Ten Myths About Sexual Pleasure Most of us don’t learn about sex and pleasure in any meaningful way.  What we learn from our culture especially from pornography, the movies and magazines is limited, unrealistic and fundamentally flawed.  Yet many believe this is how...